I most likely am not the prettiest one in the room.
Or the smartest.
Or the richest.
Or the thinnest.
Or even the nicest.
But I am most likely the one having the most fun.
Once upon a time I decided that trying to be the winner of the "I am better than you" contest wasn't any fun.
In fact, it was the opposite of fun.
I never won. Even when I won-I lost.
So now, I focus my energy into being and having fun.
What size is my dress? How much money do I make? How smart am I? Did they like me?
Was I fun?